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Interview with Lady Joy

Good day Ma’am, thank you for allowing me to interview you today. Please could you tell us a little about your background and how you became involved in the scene?

I have been dominant for as long as I can remember. As a child I can remember playing the normal tie up games and feeling excited. As I got older the feeling became more obviously sexual and having an inquisitive nature I was keen to experiment. Soon I discovered that my dominant nature was becoming more prominent and I was becoming even more interested in restraints, corporal punishment, judicial discipline, medical treatments, school role play and related fetishes.
Yes, thinking back I started at a very early age with a little bondage and the other facets  gradually the came into my life. I played with my best friend who rather enjoyed the bondage side but she couldn't bring herself to beat anyone!!!!!! I thought it sounded rather fun!!!!!! So I gave it a go,  I loved it and I know she did.  

When I was a little girl, my favourite pair of shoes were knee-high rubber boots, given to me by a girl who had outgrown them. The boots were the only shoes I owned with heels and I wore them in make-believe games of chase on horseback.

I was a princess, and the boy next door was an enemy warrior, whom I had to outrun and trample for the good of my loyal subjects, such as my sister and my best friend.

Fortunately, he was a friendly neighbour and often invited me to play house.

Our imaginary home was a happy one. The boy waited on me, bringing odd little bunches of flowers, snacks, and tea, and I issued commands, such as "zip, (or unzip), my boots," and "rub my feet." The rubber made my feet moist by the time I was ready for this attention. His mother did not approve of his devotion to my feet, and he was often in trouble. I enjoyed our games and wouldn't allow him to stop.

I was disappointed when I outgrew the boots. They were never replaced, but it didn't stop me from tormenting boys. I discovered bondage as a way of demonstrating to boys the uselessness of their putative strength. My best friend had a slightly younger brother who became my first prisoner, wiggling helplessly as I bound him sternly in his family's garage because he was a sissy and his girlish laughter made me giggle.

 When adolescence altered the nature of the pleasure I took from power, I kept such feelings secret. I sought out subjects that appealed to my sense of eroticism, without signalling my forbidden preoccupations. I found saint's stories, feminism, science, art and fairy tales to be rich in sadomasochistic iconography. My instructors praised my enthusiasm for reading.

I read novels by Angela Carter, learned about the murderous sex lives of invertebrates and enjoyed religious themes in European painting. I studied hierarchical societies of primates. I loved the leather-clad bikers of Cocteau's Orphée, too much for discretion. My appreciation of culture was frequently noted.

My first job, in a comic book store, introduced me to Betty Page. I lusted instantly for Betty's high heels, and began to search for vintage items in second hand stores. Gradually I met others who shared my interest in fetish images, textures, and rituals and began to explore bondage and other disciplinary activities as an adult.

I soon found more lucrative work in the business world, where I was able to observe my colleagues in behaviour as hierarchical as that of any primates. 

Office work was so tedious but I could hope to advance. Women in slim skirted suits ruled the office, and their arrival was heralded by clicking of heels. I could look forward to having my own menials to domineer with dress codes, deadlines, and pointlessly elaborate missives. But it was obvious to me that dressing the part was my real attraction to the job. Why wait? I knew from personal experience that there were better ways to find an underling than hiring one and I soon did.

You mention earlier I think four main types of dominance. Could you tell me more about each?

Yes of course lets start with school role-play. I can be the Headmistress or Teacher who disciplines a naughty pupil.  Sometimes my pupil is simply verbally admonished and made to stand in the corner facing the wall with hands on head until I can be bothered dealing with them. Of course authentic punishment is usually 6 of the best with the cane......wonderful!!!! Nothing gives me greater pleasure than admonishing someone, putting them in their place and taking their trousers or knickers down and giving them 6 of the best.

Punishment ranges from an over the knee spanking and paddling, I also use the strap, slipper, tawse and my all time favourite......the cane!!!!!!! Very often I dress my boy as a naughty school girl and I have a collection of uniforms for him to wear. Often a nappy and plastic knickers are substituted for his by now valued navy blues. I do so enjoy the delicious humiliation of seeing a man in a pretty short revealing dress or gymslip plus I get the added convenience of ease of access they allow me whilst punishing them.

Alternatively pupils may wish to visit to the school matron or nurse. I enjoy intimately examining and disciplining my naughty schoolboy/girl. Once he hears the snap of the latex gloves, he knows and fears what is coming.

A typical scenario could be "The Test”. This is a very special test however as the penalties for wrong answers can be painful! There are two parts to the test with punishment taking place after I have marked the answer sheet after each part. So if he does badly in test one, he is going to be very uncomfortable whilst sitting the second part of the test.

Formal and Judicial Discipline, I love authentic Formal or Judicial Discipline scenarios, and thoroughly enjoy them!!!!!!! I delight in dressing in rubber and leather and beating or torturing my slave into submission. A real judicial caning given by me as a sadistic Prison warder using a genuine "Dragon cane" to a prisoner fully restrained to a whipping bench is a joy. Believe me I would have very few repeat offenders in real life. Quite often in my early days the fantasy took over reality and although a prisoner can imagine a large rubber clad dominant female caning him to within an inch of his life......he doesn't realise that pain is involved!!!! If my partner hasn't been caned before then I would rather cane them in a more traditional way where they get to feel different canes and intensities. If they are adamant about wanting to experience a judicial caning then I will be delighted to. However most of my prisoners do have a say (although they shouldn't!!!!!) on how many strokes they think they can take, I have to be realistic yet create an enjoyable authentic scene.

I love all levels from the true masochist to complete beginner wishing for OTK, paddling or tawsing, out or more often in full restraint. I am an extremely accurate caner and I enjoy the thrashings I give.

Medical treatments. I love being in the role of a Matron giving treatments to cure a variety of illness, ranging from intimate and humiliating examinations and enemas (three types, Gravity, Higginsons and electrical pump!) to the more exotic treatments. These include but are not limited to: Electrics for ALL parts of the body, piercing, complete anal treatments, catheters, sounds and even dental.
I like my partner naked and helpless when examining him in an intimate way. I love seeing my patient, wriggle, squirm and moan as I introduce objects to all of his orifices. Normal for us women but for a man it comes as a shock to be penetrated and filled.  I get immense satisfaction from watching him writhe as electrics shocks racks his body and the humiliation as he loses control of his bodily functions as an enema catheter or urinary catheters is introduced into him. Nappies and plastic knickers also add a delightfully humiliating undertone specially if my patient is restrained and fighting suppositories or a glycerin enema!!!!!

Aunty / Lady Boss/ Governess Domestic Role-play. I really enjoy discipline in a domestic setting. Whether as a strict Aunty, Lady Boss, or severe Landlady. I really enjoy old fashioned discipline, administered expertly and thoroughly to a bare bottom.
From the initial admonishment to the chastened apologies, the spankings are conducted in an authentic way. Once over my lap there will ample time for him to regret misdemeanors and concentrate on his future behavior. Corner time follows for added humiliation and I have an opportunity to admire my work, something I really enjoy. There is nothing like the site of a well spanked bottom.
I have a range of equipment designed and made by my charge to inflict pain on his naughty bottom. I delight in taking my charge to his threshold and then a little beyond it. No gain without pain is what I say. All discipline is administered on the bare bottom and if he has been very naughty I will tawse or strap him to ensure his compliance.

If he has been extremely naughty boy I will use my cane, once bent over my trestle he will be expected to remain perfectly still. Failure to do so will result in me applying restraints and additional strokes of the cane. I do so enjoy seeing my charge squirm against his restraints as I apply the additional strokes.

The Lady Boss - I dress immaculately in white blouse, short skirt, stockings and high heels; I am every inch the picture of efficiency. As my employee stand before me, I will evaluate his work before deciding on his punishment. The Lady Boss’s punishments range from simple over the knee spanking to a full caning! Always expertly administered with accuracy and relish.  

As an associated area I love chastity devices which are a brilliant way of further controlling any man. I'm using a CB3000 on mine at the moment which work reasonable well but I hope to upgrade to a Lori tube and get a PA piercing done to make removal absolutely impossible.

Whatever the scenario, the added humiliation being made to wear female or baby clothing or other things whilst being punished only adds to my enjoyment of his predicament. I enjoy the site of a fully grown man or woman for that matter dancing around with their knickers around there ankles, clutching their bottoms, promising to be good. Then they realize that their punishment is yet not over and it is hairbrush or paddle time plus bondage, confinement, forced servitude of many kinds, maybe even interrogation and/or torture may be planned but central to all elements are mindfucks. 

You mention role play often, is it something you can do easily?

I am a naturally dominant person, so adopting the role of the assertive in the scenario come easily. For 24/7 we maintain the expected general life style and I can’t remember the last time I allowed my partner to sleep unrestrained or normal male underwear. However,  I really do enjoy turning up the heat and playing the part of the Headmistress, Rubber Nurse, Prison Warder or Aunty. I am pleased to say that my partner always finds once the session starts he really does feel he is being disciplined by my chosen disciplinarian and derives a great deal pleasure.

How would you describe your style of dominance?

My style can be rather menacing or persuasive depending on my mood and what the session calls for. It can also be relaxed and casual but it is total unless I do not want it to be.

What are your favourite types of session?

Ones that are fun!!!!!!!! When friends drop round and I do enjoy going out and about. Our long walks can be entertaining, especially if we end up in a friend’s home. I love the games that can be taken out in public. I enjoy outings involving cross dressing, discreet or obvious diapering, bondage or toys concealed underneath clothing. The knowing and questioning looks are a real turn on.

And what is your favourite position to have your sub in?

Either bent over a desk or punishment bench for 6 of the best or on his/her back with their legs in stirrups awaiting an intimate inspection!!!!!! And bondage, not purely for restraint though. Sometimes I use it to torture or cause mental torment. Predicaments can be physical or psychological. Escape may be possible, but extremely painful. I love creating bondage situations that offer a choice of evils, or pleasure at a price.

What do you prefer to wear during the sessions?

I am happy to wear whatever is most suitable for the scenarios........however I do draw the line at rubber when it is hot and I am not often naked.

How important is physical bondage in your scenes?

Physical bondage is vital but it does naturally depend on the scene. In a schoolroom a pupil will have to be restrained for his own good, perhaps to stop him interfering with himself or his uniform. In the judicial and medical scenarios it is an integral part of the scenario. I have a wonderful whipping bench where once restrained my partner has no choice but to accept his fate. My medical examination bed is purpose built and the patient is extremely well secured and his legs can also secured into stirrups. This allows for access to all of his intimate places and ensures that he remains where I want him.

What is the most severe punishment you have inflicted?

I have given someone 300 stokes of the 3 tailed tawse as hard as I could followed by 300 strokes of my thickest dragon cane also as hard as I physically could........his bottom was a complete mess and I gave myself a blister on my finger!

What is the most bizarre or way out activity in which you have been asked to participate?

I was once asked to insert 60 cigarettes up someone's bottom, stub a cigarette out on his body and then paint him from his neck to his feet with gloss paint!!!!!!!
I rather think the paint was a little difficult to remove, I naturally sent him home, wrapped in newspaper, however I did suggest we use emulsion rather than gloss.......but he knew best!!!!!!!!

What do you enjoy doing when you are relaxing?

I enjoy reading, listening to music of all types, particularly classical and I love walking with my partner.

Thank you so much for sparing the time for this interview Ma’am. I much appreciated the opportunity.  

CJ

 

 
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