Interview with Lady Joy
Good day Ma’am, thank you for allowing me to
interview you today. Please could you tell us a little about your background and
how you became involved in the scene?
I have been dominant for as long as I can remember.
As a child I can remember playing the normal tie up games and feeling excited.
As I got older the feeling became more obviously sexual and having an inquisitive
nature I was keen to experiment. Soon I discovered that my dominant nature was
becoming more prominent and I was becoming even more interested in restraints,
corporal punishment, judicial discipline, medical treatments, school role play
and related fetishes.
I was a little girl, my favourite pair of shoes were knee-high rubber boots,
given to me by a girl who had outgrown them. The boots were the only shoes I
owned with heels and I wore them in make-believe games of chase on horseback.
was a princess, and the boy next door was an enemy warrior, whom I had to outrun
and trample for the good of my loyal subjects, such as my sister and my best
he was a friendly neighbour and often invited me to play house.
imaginary home was a happy one. The boy waited on me, bringing odd little
bunches of flowers, snacks, and tea, and I issued commands, such as "zip,
(or unzip), my boots," and "rub my feet." The rubber made my feet
moist by the time I was ready for this attention. His mother did not approve of
his devotion to my feet, and he was often in trouble. I enjoyed our games and
wouldn't allow him to stop.
disappointed when I outgrew the boots. They were never replaced, but it didn't
stop me from tormenting boys. I discovered bondage as a way of demonstrating to
boys the uselessness of their putative strength. My best friend had a slightly
younger brother who became my first prisoner, wiggling helplessly as I bound him
sternly in his family's garage because he was a sissy and his girlish laughter
made me giggle.
read novels by Angela Carter, learned about the murderous sex lives of
invertebrates and enjoyed religious themes in European painting. I studied
hierarchical societies of primates. I loved the leather-clad bikers of Cocteau's
Orphée, too much for discretion. My appreciation of culture was frequently
first job, in a comic book store, introduced me to Betty Page. I lusted
instantly for Betty's high heels, and began to search for vintage items in
second hand stores. Gradually I met others who shared my interest in fetish
images, textures, and rituals and began to explore bondage and other
disciplinary activities as an adult.
I soon found more lucrative work in the business world, where I was able to observe my colleagues in behaviour as hierarchical as that of any primates.
Office work was so tedious but I could hope to advance. Women in slim skirted suits ruled the office, and their arrival was heralded by clicking of heels. I could look forward to having my own menials to domineer with dress codes, deadlines, and pointlessly elaborate missives. But it was obvious to me that dressing the part was my real attraction to the job. Why wait? I knew from personal experience that there were better ways to find an underling than hiring one and I soon did.
You mention earlier I think four main types of
dominance. Could you tell me more about each?
Yes of course lets start with school role-play. I
can be the Headmistress or Teacher who disciplines a naughty pupil. Sometimes
my pupil is simply verbally admonished and made to stand in the corner facing
the wall with hands on head until I can be bothered dealing with them. Of course
authentic punishment is usually 6 of the best with the cane......wonderful!!!!
Nothing gives me greater pleasure than admonishing someone, putting them in
their place and taking their trousers or knickers down and giving them 6 of the
Punishment ranges from an over the knee spanking
and paddling, I also use the strap, slipper, tawse and my all time favourite......the
cane!!!!!!! Very often I dress my boy as a naughty school girl and I have a
collection of uniforms for him to wear. Often a nappy and plastic knickers are
substituted for his by now valued navy blues. I do so enjoy the delicious
humiliation of seeing a man in a pretty short revealing dress or gymslip plus I
get the added convenience of ease of access they allow me whilst punishing them.
Alternatively pupils may wish to visit to the
school matron or nurse. I enjoy intimately examining and disciplining my naughty
schoolboy/girl. Once he hears the snap of the latex gloves, he knows and fears
what is coming.
A typical scenario could be "The Test”. This
is a very special test however as the penalties for wrong answers can be
painful! There are two parts to the test with punishment taking place after I
have marked the answer sheet after each part. So if he does badly in test one,
he is going to be very uncomfortable whilst sitting the second part of the test.
Formal and Judicial Discipline, I love authentic
Formal or Judicial Discipline scenarios, and thoroughly enjoy them!!!!!!! I
delight in dressing in rubber and leather and beating or torturing my slave into
submission. A real judicial caning given by me as a sadistic Prison warder using
a genuine "Dragon cane" to a prisoner fully restrained to a whipping
bench is a joy. Believe me I would have very few repeat offenders in real life.
Quite often in my early days the fantasy took over reality and although a
prisoner can imagine a large rubber clad dominant female caning him to within an
inch of his life......he doesn't realise that pain is
involved!!!! If my partner hasn't been caned before then I would rather cane
them in a more traditional way where they get to feel different canes and
intensities. If they are adamant about wanting to experience a judicial caning
then I will be delighted to. However most of my prisoners do have a say
(although they shouldn't!!!!!) on how many strokes they think they can take, I
have to be realistic yet create an enjoyable authentic scene.
I love all levels from the true masochist to
complete beginner wishing for OTK, paddling or tawsing, out or more often in
full restraint. I am an extremely accurate caner and I enjoy the thrashings I
Medical treatments. I love being in the role of a
Matron giving treatments to cure a variety of illness, ranging from intimate and
humiliating examinations and enemas (three types, Gravity, Higginsons and
electrical pump!) to the more exotic treatments. These include but are not
limited to: Electrics for ALL parts of the body, piercing, complete anal
treatments, catheters, sounds and even dental.
Aunty / Lady Boss/ Governess Domestic Role-play. I
really enjoy discipline in a domestic setting. Whether as a strict Aunty, Lady
Boss, or severe Landlady. I really enjoy old fashioned discipline, administered
expertly and thoroughly to a bare bottom.
If he has been extremely naughty boy I will use my
cane, once bent over my trestle he will be expected to remain perfectly still.
Failure to do so will result in me applying restraints and additional strokes of
the cane. I do so enjoy seeing my charge squirm against his restraints as I
apply the additional strokes.
The Lady Boss - I dress immaculately in white
blouse, short skirt, stockings and high heels; I am every inch the picture of
efficiency. As my employee stand before me, I will evaluate his work before
deciding on his punishment. The Lady Boss’s punishments range from simple over
the knee spanking to a full caning! Always expertly administered with accuracy
As an associated area I love chastity devices which are a brilliant way of further controlling any man. I'm using a CB3000 on mine at the moment which work reasonable well but I hope to upgrade to a Lori tube and get a PA piercing done to make removal absolutely impossible.
Whatever the scenario, the added humiliation being made to wear female or baby clothing or other things whilst being punished only adds to my enjoyment of his predicament. I enjoy the site of a fully grown man or woman for that matter dancing around with their knickers around there ankles, clutching their bottoms, promising to be good. Then they realize that their punishment is yet not over and it is hairbrush or paddle time plus bondage, confinement, forced servitude of many kinds, maybe even interrogation and/or torture may be planned but central to all elements are mindfucks.
You mention role play often, is it something you can
I am a naturally dominant person, so adopting the
role of the assertive in the scenario come easily. For 24/7 we maintain the
expected general life style and I can’t remember the last time I allowed my
partner to sleep unrestrained or normal male underwear. However, I
really do enjoy turning up the heat and playing the part of the Headmistress,
Rubber Nurse, Prison Warder or Aunty. I am pleased to say that my partner always
finds once the session starts he really does feel he is being disciplined by my
chosen disciplinarian and derives a great deal pleasure.
How would you describe your style of dominance?
My style can be rather menacing or persuasive
depending on my mood and what the session calls for. It can also be relaxed and
casual but it is total unless I do not want it to be.
What are your
types of session?
Ones that are fun!!!!!!!! When friends drop round
and I do enjoy going out and about. Our long walks can be entertaining,
especially if we end up in a friend’s home.
And what is your favourite position to have your sub
Either bent over a desk or punishment bench for 6
of the best or on his/her back with their legs in stirrups awaiting an intimate
And bondage, not purely for restraint though. Sometimes I use it to torture or
cause mental torment. Predicaments can be physical or psychological. Escape may
be possible, but extremely painful. I love creating bondage situations that
offer a choice of evils, or pleasure at a price.
And bondage, not purely for restraint though. Sometimes I use it to torture or cause mental torment. Predicaments can be physical or psychological. Escape may be possible, but extremely painful. I love creating bondage situations that offer a choice of evils, or pleasure at a price.
What do you prefer to wear during the sessions?
I am happy to wear whatever is most suitable for
the scenarios........however I do draw the line at rubber when it is hot and I
am not often naked.
How important is physical bondage in your scenes?
Physical bondage is vital but it does naturally
depend on the scene. In a schoolroom a pupil will have to be restrained for his
own good, perhaps to stop him interfering with himself or his uniform. In the
judicial and medical scenarios it is an integral part of the scenario. I have a
wonderful whipping bench where once restrained my partner has no choice but to
accept his fate. My medical examination bed is purpose built and the patient is
extremely well secured and his legs can also secured into stirrups. This allows
for access to all of his intimate places and ensures that he remains where I
What is the most severe punishment you have
I have given someone 300 stokes of the 3 tailed
tawse as hard as I could followed by 300 strokes of my thickest dragon cane also
as hard as I physically could........his bottom was a complete mess and I gave
myself a blister on my finger!
What is the most bizarre or way out activity in
which you have been asked to participate?
I was once asked to insert 60 cigarettes up
someone's bottom, stub a cigarette out on his body and then paint him from his
neck to his feet with gloss paint!!!!!!!
What do you enjoy doing when you are relaxing?
I enjoy reading, listening to music of all types,
particularly classical and I love walking with my partner.
Thank you so much for sparing the time for this
interview Ma’am. I much appreciated the opportunity.
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