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I fully approve of men wearing schoolgirl knickers, and I do so know most of the time. However, one of the reasons I prefer these knickers is because they are properly 'full' in every sense of the word. I have looked at Satique, but they really only offer hipster styles which I think are useless. Also there is a 'Mantie' site offering knickers for men, but these too are also hipster at best.
E-bay have many different styles on offer, and quite frankly are the best place to buy, though Annette's Knickers are also an excellent site. I found on e-bay some 'cheerleader' full panties which look very interesting but are on offer in dollars, so I suppose they can only be purchased in the US, and at $9.99 plus postage are not cheap, but I would really like a pair to try.
Keep up the good work, and I really love your site. John
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sissy potty pants [mailto:email@example.com]
Dear Lady Alexandra,
I just love your site and thought you might like to publish this letter on your site and have also including my website as well which includes a photo of me being spanked by a Mistress friend of mine at the Black and Blue Ball in New York City.
The Text of the letter is as follows:
Dear Lady Alexandra,
I wanted to tell you about my wonderful, but humiliating experiences at a fetish Halloween party last month where two Female dominants, Mistress Cassie and Mistress Joanne both disciplined and humiliated this naughty sissy diaper slave!
Mistress Joanne especially enjoyed my new pink rhumba panties which were pink and had 4 rows of white lace on the backside! She especially enjoyed putting me over the spanking bench where she took my diapers down and spanked and paddled me several times in front of all her female friends! She especially enjoyed sticking my baby bottle up my sissy hiney! It was so embarrassing especially when she toyed with my sissy hole with all the women laughing at me as she powdered me! Wish i had also brought my diaper rash ointment for her amusement as well!
Mistress Cassie also took great delight in both punishing me and humiliated me at this event as well! I had the pleasure of meeting her at the last fetish event. She also allowed her friends to humiliate me as well! One of her friends who wore a beautiful leather skirt and especially enjoyed have me kneel in front with my hiney readily available for her paddle and my powder!
As you can gather, I especially enjoy being publically humilated as a naughty sissy diaper slave. Have even had my diapers changed by Mistresses at various fetish parties and events! But since I am such a sissy baby, I deserve to be subjected to embarrassing diaper changing experiences!
Have a nice week!
I have viewed the website for a while now and have a couple of thoughts that people could consider for their domination.
1. What about putting the slave in their chastity belt and feeding them Viagra? Perhaps this could be used as a punishment for unauthorised emissions.
2. What about putting the slave in flannel lined bloomers when doing diaper domination? Certainly with a cloth diaper the leakage all down the leg to the knee could be more uncomfortable.
Regards C**** (Nice ideas C. Love the Viagra idea but in my experience its not needed;-) Do you have any more?)
I must confess I love your site The Institute. Would that it were a real place, not just a virtual place. If it were, I suspect I would be a regular visitor, if not a permanent resident!
On a personal not, I am a strong proponent of being heavily diapered and put into both bondage and servitude, not only for the personal hygiene but also for the incredible feeling of (both!) submission and inferiority they provide. Nothing says it better than your own "Diaper Domination" essay included in your side.
As a submission, may I offer the reminder to re-read your Diaper Domination to all Dominants and hopefully to (pardon the pun) institute it into their own lifestyles.
As a suggestion, I wish there were both a Personals Section and a Chat section to the site for the potential of meeting like-minded individuals.
As an overall comment, I find the Site to be salvation for me...the hope is out there that I might one day realize my dream of living my life on a full time basis this way!
I thank you for your work on the Site!
I only recently discovered the power and enjoyment of nettle arousal and now I am frustrated that the nettles are out of season!
They have a much more impressive sensation than things like Deep Heat, and although I have enjoyed CP for many years, the nettles have that long lasting lovely glow that spanking does not give as well.
Repeatedly applying nettle leaves to my anus or cock eventually makes it numb, but feeling lovely, and the next morning if I am aroused then a delightful tingling fills my cock.
Nettles are very under-rated in my view, but as you say, once you have picked them you need to keep them fresh otherwise they wilt. If only you could bottle that sting!
Maybe you should start a Group to share nettle stinging experiences.(Ed- If anyone has any 'experiences' we are more than happy to publish them on the nettles page HERE) Congratulations on your site.
Thank you for your comments Rod.
Fully support your views on the use of nettles although bottling could be a little difficult. Remember itís the little hairs that inject the irritant into the skin that is equally important. Have you tried them as a switch during your CP sessions. They donít last long if used with force but if you have 5-6 bunches of the older/thicker stems ready they are truly effective in teaching a lesson and bringing a sub to his or her knees.
On Behalf Of mark
Do you have experiences with both the Posey and Max Cita SJ's. I have a Posey but the problem is that I am able to get out of it without much effort. It is real easy to rub the buckles against a piece of furniture and work the straps loose. Also, the Posey gets quite uncomfortable after a few hours. How secure and comfortable is the Cita? Would it be possible to work the straps loose, or are they much more secure than the Posey? How about spending an entire night in it?
My wife has been getting frustrated when she straps me into the Posey for some 'down time' and I am able to get free. I'm hoping that the Cita would solve this problem and provide her with a little more piece of mind knowing that I'll be right where she left me.
I stumbled across your site and I was very impressed to say the least. What you specialize in is what I fantasize about to some extent. I like tease, denial with a little bondage tossed in for good measure!
I found your (Ed credit to Jim here, we only send the plans out. Over 250 copies so far!) pony to be unreal and very cool. In the least bit it would be a neat wood working project! Depending on what the wife thinks is really whether it gets built or not. Here is hoping that she likes it! And not to worry... If it gets built you will get pictures of the end product. I'm planning on using redwood and poplar. Thanks for the plans!
My boyfriend told me last month that he likes wearing diapers and wetting in them, and showed me some of the places he comes. I haven't had much to do with for since as I am still trying to come to terms with this. I am still not sure if I can accept this. I have decided that I will not try to change him, if this is one of the things that make him happy. Then I will either deal with it or leave him.
Last Monday he told me one of his fantasies was to put me in diapers. He said I don't have to wet it but that he wanted to have sex with us both wearing diapers, I was put off by the idea. But he gets so excited when he talks about this kind of stuff, which makes me a little worked up too. Maybe some of the girls here could give me some idea what I should do?
For all my life I thought I was the only one that had this fetish but thanks to the internet I found out that I'm not alone.However none of the sites I viewed ever put the domination twist on it that I associated with this fetish.For me it was never about regression or age play but a form of domination where I was reduced to nothing and then being made to suffer for soiling my diaper.Now that I've said all of that,Let me thank you for this site.And if you ever need a hot young sub that will bend to your will ....it's me!
Fancy contacting sE? firstname.lastname@example.org
I have just come across this site and was reading the article regarding making your man wear your knickers as a punishment, although I have never had to wear knickers I have been controlled using knickers but unfortunately for me this was by being made to smell them which I know is a totally different thing so I wont bore you with the details except to say it was in my younger days but browsing this site brought back memories lol.
W (Follow-up message HERE dated 2/7/05)
John **** [mailto:****@***.co.nz]
Regarding enema, it is wise to put salt into the liquid in order to replace the salts washed out 1 teaspoon per pint is about the correct amount, there are a number of recipes on the internet. I note you use a large inflatable plug, how lucky the lad is !. May also suggest boys clothes be placed in cupboard with remarks "you wont be needing these for some time now that we have got you where we want you, and keep wrist restraints fitted, also anesathetic/oxygen mask, or possibly rubber gas mask with eyes blocked out as deprivation. of sight and when giving enema Nurse tells him just a little drop more Boy, then you can rest, etc: reminded that if he cant keep it up, he might get a caning or other treatment
(Ed - Adding salt to the enema solution is not strictly necessary for most solutions unless there is a medical reason for it. Far better to give a balanced electrolyte drink either during or after the procedure. This also helps combat dehydration as fluid and electrolyte replacement is readily absorbed from the stomach and small intestine, helping your patient to rehydrate at the quickest possible rate. Most of the commercial products also contain a glucose Ďtop upí as they are mainly designed for use after training and competition. I think Energiser, Isosport, Staminade electrolyte powders are available in NZ and simply make up with water to a cost of about $1 per litre. Donít show your patient the container and make a big thing of mixing up the medicine. Another mind fuck area? )
John **** [mailto:****@***.co.nz]
I read your article with interest, and today it is spare the rod and the child will turn out un-disciplined, with a high probability of ending up in jail at huge cost to the country. I was .. in one way lucky, I was once threatened by my father with his wide heavy belt, the choice being good or get the belt, I chose the former and got sent to my room for the rest of the day. I lived in the north of UK in those days, and was not to know the effectiveness of a caning until I was into my 30;s
...trying (without success ) to experience a caning or belting
but as ones sensitivity alters as one gets older, the threshold of pain diminishes. I am a firm believer of bring back the birch, the tawse (known as the belt in Scotland)
and reducing the sentence in prison/reform school on a percentage basis of time spent in jail/number of cuts across the bare arse.
Robert Wallin [mailto:Robin12590@worldnet.att.net]
What kind of STUPID, WORTHLESS, GARBAGE runs this rotten site! (Ed We do get a few mails of this type)
Thank you for your prompt and considered reply.
I have used the Vlesi-slip NIGHT diapers successfully for several years - very handy for a long session in a straitjacket, and a fun overnight or even daytime punishment.
Never believe the ISO capacity ratings of diapers: they are valid only for (defined) test conditions, but they do at least provide a standardised comparison point. In practical terms I find the night diapers capable of holding two bladderfulls without overflow or leakage, but they are very dodgy for a third time. It's interesting to note that diapers generally perform *much* better when used little and often, instead of one big drench. I figure the useable capacity is probably about two to three pints, which is a useful rule of thumb to apply to the ISO ratings on other products (i.e. divide the stated capacity by 3 for BDSM-type use!). I have not tried the non-night ones; my experience with other brands suggests the performance will be markedly inferior.
When dry the Vlesi-slip diapers (See Knight-Air on he LINKS page) are thin and pretty quiet, and are very comfortable. As they fill they naturally become bulkier in the crotch. The wicking action is fairly good, and the one-way layer does a reasonably good job of keeping the skin dry - ceratinly for the first wetting, anyway.
As with all disposable diapers the leak performance is critically dependent on the fit. The best way I've found is to put them on lying down, adjusting the diaper for most comfortable position, then securing the leg bands as tightly as practical. The upper fastenings are far less critical. If the wearer intends any significant physical activity - or a long session - then the lower tabs should be over-taped with about six inches of gaffa [gaffer, duck, duct] tape (not parcel tape). This will ensure that the tabs don't come adrift, which leads to leakage. It also spreads the fastening stress over a much larger area, reducing the (very slight) tendency to split the outer waterproof layer if overstressed.
Whilst these diapers are pretty good on their own, they benefit from the additional protection afforded by a really good pair of waterproof plastic (PVC) pants. Rubber and latex work too, of course! These pants fulfil several functions: first, they are tougher than the diapers' waterproof layer and thus more resistant to tearing. Second, they provide an additional barrier against leaks. Thirdly, the pants provide additional support as the diaper fills and becomes heavier, teducing the tendency for the crotch to head for ones knees at inopportune moments.
Unlike some of the cheaper designs, Vlesi-slip diapers are very capable of dealing with - er - solid matter, owing to an internal containment barrier. When used with good plastic or rubber pants a bowel movement will be contained for severl hours - overnight if suitably restrained ;-) - but there's nothing much which will contain unpleasant odours.
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Barry - I love the institute i hope you get a bigger selection of straitjacketed women that's my kind of thing keep up the good work. Any photographic models out there or couples looking to try things out? Send us a mail and lets chat.
Roland - Hey there! I really, really *loved* your site - I've been searching quite some time for a site which truly represents all I love about bondage, diapers, and even sedation thrown into the mix. I'd more than love combining those ingredients sometime, maybe including something like laughing gas / gassing.Anyway, keep up the good work! Can any one help with original work on a gassing theme?
Billy - Howdy, just thought I would give ya my 2 cents on your site, totaly cool !!!, I like it alot . would you be interested in some restraint sheet pics? I have several different types in my collection ... Thanks for your comments. Let me think about your offer. Yes right! Link to be inserted here when available.
Dave - I wonder if you would like to hear my abduction fantasy? I would love for two or more sexy, but strong nurses to show up at my house, in traditional uniforms (not scrubs), and inform me that I will be coming with them. can come along quietly or be escorted to the van by force, the choice is mine. I choose to resist and of course I'm immediately pinned to the floor, and secured in a super tight straitjacket. It's decided that I also be kept silenced with a generous amount of cloth adhesive tape and bandaging over my mouth, effectively sealing it shut. My lower jaw is locked shut using a head harness. I'm sternly warned that in the private mental ward I'm being placed in, that if I don't do as I'm told I will definitely end up in more severe restraints, such as a wet-pack. Meanwhile a brunette nurse is waving a big mean looking needle around, threatening heavy sedation if I don't settle down. Well she's turning me on so I decide to behave. Before I know it, I'm strapped into a wheelchair and rolled into the back of the mysterious unmarked white, stainless steel lined prison transport van waiting discreetly out of the view prying eyes.
Sounds very cool!
Visitor from Greece Hi my name is Makis and I like sj's. Congratulations for your site and love of sj's and medical restraints.
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Simon - I had you site address posted to me by a friend, and have found it VERY interesting!!
Keep up the good work.....and i'll pass the word around.
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/nappybounduk (my group)
Help needed - Does anyone know of a Munch in Greece?
Mistress Amanda - Great work keep it up. Any possibility of a section on electrical play?
Dear lady Alexandra, Just a note to tell you how much I enjoy your site. It brings back many exciting, though often extremely embarrassing, memories of the years from 14 until I left home at 18, when I was subjected to petticoat discipline by my father's second wife. Peter s
PJ Your site are very simple. Can't you make the graphics more interesting?
Yes, I could. But every little thing that looks special, does something or would for whatever reason make my site more "interesting" would have to be loaded first. That takes time and cost you and Yossie my site host money for bandwidth. Besides I want to keep access to the site free and sure as eggs are eggs higher costs will need to be recovered. So for now apart from a little bit of coding when I feel a need, sorry will not do.
sean - Dear Lady Alexandra, First i must say... thank you for your time with this note... and that your site is most awesome... thank you for all your hard work and time with the site... Question asked here removed and answered privately.
gene - I would
imagine that most of you have heard the expression "padded cell" at some
point, but how many people have actually been inside of one. Well, thanks to the
Kaikoura Museum I can now say that I am not only one of the few people who have
had that opportunity, but was also able to get out of there and write about it.
It seems that the original jailhouse in Kaikoura had one of its cells padded
with thick, relatively soft material (at least it might have been nearly 100
years ago) on the walls, doors and even floor. Unlike many museums that I am
more accustomed to, in this one you were actually allowed to walk inside the
original cell and try and imagine what it must have felt like to be locked
inside. I for one can say that as crazy as the world might seem some times, I
would still much rather be on the outside than on the inside of that one.
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